Here you will find the Poem For A Child Expected of poet Anne Ridler
Lovers whose lifted hands are candles in winter, Whose gentle ways like streams in the easy summer, Lying together For secret setting of a child, love what they do, Thinking they make that candle immortal, those streams forever flow, And yet do better than they know. So the first flutter of a baby felt in the womb, Its little signal and promise of riches to come, Is taken in its father's name; Its life is the body of his love, like his caress, First delicate and strange, that daily use Makes dearer and priceless. Our baby was to be the living sign of our joy, Restore to each the other's lost infancy; To a painter's pillaging eye Poet's coiled hearing, add the heart we might earn By the help of love; all that our passion would yield We put to planning our child. The world flowed in; whatever we liked we took: For its hair, the gold curls of the November oak We saw on our walk; Snowberries that make a Milky Way in the wood For its tender hands; calm screen of the frozen flood For our care of its childhood. But the birth of a child is an uncontrollable glory; Cat's cradle of hopes will hold no living baby, Long though it lay quietly. And when our baby stirs and struggles to be born It compels humility: what we began Is now its own. For as the sun that shines through glass So Jesus in His Mother was. Therefore every human creature, Since it shares in His nature, In candle gold passion or white Sharp star should show its own way of light. May no parental dread or dream Darken our darling's early beam: May she grow to her right powers Unperturbed by passion of ours.